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The delicate art of giving oral sex

By Lady Marmalade, March 21 2017 —  As someone with a vagina, cunnilingus is very important to my sex life. In fact, like many people with vaginas, it is one of the few ways I can reach orgasm. Penetration just isn’t enough sometimes. And for those with penises, getting a blowjob is a great part…

What I wish I’d known before having sex

By Lady Marmalade, March 7 2017 — Before I was sexually active, people told me a lot of different things about having sex. My mother told me that “everything changes” once you do it for the first time. I was told that I would grow abnormally attached to the person who defaced my womanly virtue…

How to ease your way into the world of BDSM

By Lady Marmalade, February 14 2017 — For people tired of a vanilla sex life, there are some easy ways to ease into a kinkier side without going full dominatrix-sex-dungeon — unless that’s what you want, in which case — hell yeah. BDSM — bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism — is a comprehensive lifestyle for…

Anorgasmia: a rarely discussed condition

By Lady Marmalade, January 31 2017 —   For many people, sex and physical intimacy are important aspects of a relationship. The ability to get close, release tension and have fun can be positive and bond-strengthening. For some, sex might even be the best part of a relationship. But what happens when sex creates tension…

Top 10 places to have sex on campus

By Lady Marmalade, January 31 2017 —  We all know that school can be extremely stressful. However, there is a simple solution to alleviate all that stress — banging! No one has time to go home when they’re in the heat of the moment. For this reason, the Gauntlet’s resident sexpert Lady Marmalade compiled the 10 best…

First and foremost: the joys of foreplay

By Lady Marmalade, January 17 2017 — Foreplay seems to be an all-or-nothing aspect of a relationship in terms of sex. Either your partner loves to take some sweet, sweet time to warm you up, or things hit full-throttle almost as soon as they begin. If you have a vagina, you probably know that for…

Hook up or settle down, it’s your choice

By Lady Marmalade, November 29 2016 — Relationships in your 20s are strange. There are people who love the single life that university allows — countless sexual and romantic encounters that are more or less meaningless — and there are people who go from one serious relationship to the next. University is typically presented as…

Don’t go to online porn for your sex-ed

By Lady Marmalade, November 15 2016 — When I was in grade eight, my math teacher had to teach my class how babies are made and she failed miserably. Not only did her “sex-ed” consist of Googled images of herpes and genital warts to scare us into abstinence, but something she said during these two…

Wrap your willy before you get silly

By Lady Marmalade, October 25 2016 — It’s a tale as old as time — no matter what sexual activity you’re planning on engaging in — be safe. Whether you’re wearing a condom, using a dental dam or you’re on the pill, the patch or ring, there are literally endless contraceptive opportunities for people having…

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