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We are all capable of having sexual fantasies and for those of you that act on them, this article is for you. At least once in your lives you have become aroused by the idea of having sex with someone else or in a place that may be socially unacceptable. The thrills we experience through imagination are completely ours with no restriction or compromise and if we get the chance to act out these fantasies, the reward may be immeasurable. As you scroll through hundreds of pictures on Facebook taken from Halloween night, you may start to think that Halloween is arguably the best celebrated holiday of the year. This day allows us to transform into someone or something completely outside our everyday character, taking advantage of the immense pleasure of living out our personal fantasies. Sexual fantasies in particular are an important part of your overall sexual health. There is a relationship between sexual fantasy and sexual satisfaction, so use all those great ideas and heighten your sexual creativity.

Sexual fantasy is described as any mental imagery that is erotic and arousing to an individual and many members of the population have such fantasies. This can involve sex with another, sex with self or just thinking about the fantasy with no physical stimulation. There should be no reason to pack away all those fun outfits and masks when you could reserve a drawer for them right in your room. For those who are faithfully committed to someone and are finding that over time, sex is not as thrilling as it once was, fantasy and role-play are the common recommendations of most sex therapists. We all have a desire to sometimes jump out of our skin and become someone totally different, why not take advantage of the opportunity with someone you trust.

As an individual, you may have a fantasy that does not turn your partner on, but this is why we are intelligent beings. We can negotiate and compromise. Who knows, you may learn that you like having sex while on display or the excitement of role playing.

Make sure you are dressing the part of the fantasy you've chosen, costumes and accessories can help your scenario come to life. Fantasy and role-play also don't need to be confined to the comforts of your home either. Set up the scene in a restaurant or bar to meet up, create a character you will play and make your acting debut. You can go as far as your imagination (and your partner) will take you. Begin a new adventure that is sure to keep your mind fresh and your stories juicy.

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