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Commitment is scary — and that’s okay

By Lady Marmalade, April 23 2019 — Whether you can admit it or not, commitment in a relationship is a scary thing. Taking a big step in any relationship — whether it’s a new label, having sex, moving in together, meeting parents or even getting married — is often a scary time. If you’re prone…

Threeways: From fantasy to reality

By Lady Marmalade and Ms. Robinson, February 12 2019 — Threesomes can come in many different forms — two men and a woman, two women and a man, three women, three men — any combination of gender expressions and identities are possible.  There are plenty of misconceptions surrounding engaging in sex with multiple partners at a time. As a person who’s never had a…

Exploring your sexuality in a positive and healthy way

By Lady Marmalade, January 31 2019 — You’ve probably heard people talk about “experimenting” in college and exploring your sexuality now because this is the best time to do it. This is true for many people. But if you’re feeling curious about your sexual orientation and are questioning your attraction to the same gender or one…

Lady Marmalade contemplates squirting

By Lady Marmalade, November 1 2018 — If you have a vagina, there’s a chance that you have encountered a strange phenomenon during intercourse, masturbation or other internal or external stimulation. You may have felt pressure and then thought to yourself, “Did I just pee?” In all honesty, you might have. That happens sometimes. However,…

Four tips for balancing a relationship with schoolwork

By Lady Marmalade, September 20 2018 — Being a university student can make it feel like you don’t have a whole lot of free time to foster the relationships in your social, work and family lives. A significant other adds another ball to juggle. If you’re someone who tends to prioritize your relationship over all…

The delicate art of giving oral sex

By Lady Marmalade, March 21 2017 —  As someone with a vagina, cunnilingus is very important to my sex life. In fact, like many people with vaginas, it is one of the few ways I can reach orgasm. Penetration just isn’t enough sometimes. And for those with penises, getting a blowjob is a great part…

What I wish I’d known before having sex

By Lady Marmalade, March 7 2017 — Before I was sexually active, people told me a lot of different things about having sex. My mother told me that “everything changes” once you do it for the first time. I was told that I would grow abnormally attached to the person who defaced my womanly virtue…

How to ease your way into the world of BDSM

By Lady Marmalade, February 14 2017 — For people tired of a vanilla sex life, there are some easy ways to ease into a kinkier side without going full dominatrix-sex-dungeon — unless that’s what you want, in which case — hell yeah. BDSM — bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism — is a comprehensive lifestyle for…

Anorgasmia: a rarely discussed condition

By Lady Marmalade, January 31 2017 —   For many people, sex and physical intimacy are important aspects of a relationship. The ability to get close, release tension and have fun can be positive and bond-strengthening. For some, sex might even be the best part of a relationship. But what happens when sex creates tension…

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